,

“When Ministry Becomes About Me-nistry”

2–3 minutes

I once witnessed something beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time.

A lady, who had been a devout Catholic all her life, accepted Jesus as her personal Saviour during a church service I attended. It was one of those unforgettable moments. The church was rejoicing, the pastor was beaming with joy, and we were all celebrating what heaven was already throwing a party for.

But then I overheard something that made me pause.

One of the young leaders—talented, passionate, and visibly joyful at first—later said something along the lines of, “I want to do great things for God… I just feel like I’m not doing enough ministry.”

Now on the surface, that sounds spiritual. Noble, even.

But something didn’t sit right.

Because here’s the thing: Jesus was clearly at work in that church. The gospel was preached. A soul was saved. Eternity shifted. And the young leader? Instead of just celebrating what God did, he was sad that he didn’t get to do it.

And that made me think—really think.

1. Do We Rejoice Over the Lost, or Over Ourselves?

Philippians 2:20–21 tells us that Timothy was the kind of guy who genuinely cared about people. Paul said of him, “I have no one else of kindred spirit who will genuinely be concerned for your welfare… they all seek after their own interests, not those of Christ Jesus.”

That hits hard.

Would the young leader have been more joyful if he was the one who led that woman to Christ? Probably. But that reveals something—not necessarily about his passion, but about his motivation.

And we’ve all been there.

It’s easy to cheer louder when our name’s on the scoreboard. It’s a little harder to celebrate someone else’s moment if we’re measuring our own “impact.”

But Timothy didn’t need the spotlight. He didn’t need the credit. He didn’t need a title. He was all about the people. And more than that—he was about Jesus’ interests.

That’s ministry. Everything else? That’s me-nistry.

2. No Bonus Points in Heaven

Sometimes this mindset comes from flawed theology—this idea that “if I do more, I get more in heaven.” More crowns, more mansions, more divine perks.

But let’s clear this up.

God cannot love you more in heaven than He does right now. His love isn’t performance-based—it’s Jesus-based. If your goal is to earn more of His love or extra favor by racking up ministry points, you’re missing the beauty of grace.

Ministry is not a competition. It’s not a spiritual hustle for better rewards. It’s about loving people because you were loved first.


So here’s the big question:

Can you rejoice when someone else gets the fruit of what you prayed for?

Can you celebrate someone else’s win as if it were your own—because in the Kingdom, it is?

Timothy could. And honestly, we need more Timothys in a world full of influencers trying to brand their ministry.


Let’s not just do ministry. Let’s seek the interests of Christ.
And sometimes, that means stepping back and simply being grateful that someone came home—whether we were holding the mic or not.

Leave a Reply

Discover more from The Gospel Central

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading